So what do i do with my hubby.... LONG question (involves )..... mature adults please look..?

I would say spice things up more for example when you pick him up from work have nothing on but a trench coat and heels or when the kids are at a babysitters fix him breakfast, lunch or dinner with nothing on but an apron or have a candle lit bath where you give each other a bath or unexpectedly get in the shower or bath with him or if you have an office when he's in there unexpectedly go in there with some lingerie on